A tasteful work concentrates on the female’s beauty, and if sex is involved in the scene, only included its positive aspects.
Distasteful, well, that’s sadly more common. The stuff you see on this site with gratuitous nonconsensual bondage or S&M, or scenes of slavery, torture, and the deviations that show “vore”, well, that is distasteful and not respectful. Chauvinistic too. (Likely done by artists who know they can only get away with it here, with a pseudonym.)
Yours is okay. And very good too.